Rules of conduct for students in public places
Probably every person at least once in his life faced with a child who behaves incorrectly. His actions can cause varying degrees of rejection, but it immediately becomes clear to everyone, sometimes intuitively, that the child is violating the foundations accepted in society.
Peculiarities
Order in society is provided by laws and moral norms. Children are responsible before the law only after reaching certain age limits, but this does not mean that they go unpunished.
Parents and other legal representatives are responsible for serious offenses. In addition, the consequence of any misconduct is public censure. A student who does not comply with certain norms will not be able to establish communication, fully live and study, and risks becoming an outcast.
There are several reasons why students behave badly:
- they may simply not know how to do it;
- rules can be observed purely formally, without conscious desire;
- children often simply do not understand why there are rules of conduct, and what benefits their observance provides.
To avoid this, the following is important.
- Teach your child how to behave. To do this, individual and group conversations are held, posters and memos are posted.In early childhood, parents are the source of knowledge. When a child becomes a pupil of a kindergarten or school, specialists are also involved in education.
- Link theory with practice. It is impossible to analyze in detail all situations, but it is possible to give students the basic principles according to which they will build their behavior model.
- Control violations, analyze problem situations. It is important to teach the child the basics of introspection.
If a child has already learned antisocial actions, it will be more difficult to retrain him. Therefore, education should start from early childhood. This does not mean that restrictions will be placed on the child. It’s just that such measures will help the child understand the behavior of other people and form their own opinion.
Culture of behavior
The culture of behavior obliges to behave in accordance with the rules and norms accepted in society. Moreover, here we can talk about both universal human norms and principles inherent in a particular society. It is impossible to distinguish between culture for the upper or middle class. Everyone has the same values, and they do not depend on the status of a person.
Established norms of ethics should be common for children of different age groups: both for younger students and for adolescents. Even a baby can have the right manners, and you need to behave well not only in society, but also in the family.
The culture of behavior is a system of interrelated elements, such as:
- interpersonal relationships within groups and between individuals, as well as between students and teachers, parents and other members of society;
- etiquette (and the ability to apply it in different situations);
- competent oral and written speech (since with the help of it all communications are carried out);
- non-verbal signs (these include gestures, facial expressions and other actions that complement speech and contribute to understanding by other people);
- attitude towards the environment (including nature).
Do not underestimate the peculiar preparation: before going to any public place, the student or his parents (if we are talking about a younger student) should take care of his appearance and hygiene.
A neat and tidy appearance is also part of the child's culture, however, as well as his attitude towards himself, the organization of studies, home, life or leisure.
In general, the culture of student behavior is always influenced by several factors:
- parenting;
- the influence of educational institutions;
- belonging to a religious or ethnic community (mentality);
- example of others.
Communication rules
All norms governing the communication of students can be divided into several groups (depending on the place of their application).
In the process of studying
This includes behavior in general education, music, sports schools, sections, circles.
- Communication between students takes place during breaks, after lessons or at a time specially allotted by the teacher.
- During the break, you can not run up the stairs and play outdoor games, during which others may suffer.
- Communication should be calm, without the use of profanity.
- During the lessons, you can not talk, make noise, get up without permission and distract other students.
- Greet and address teachers with respect. At the appointed time, before you say or ask something, you need to raise your hand.
- The rules that form the charter of the school apply on the territory of the school. According to him, the child is obliged to obey the requirements of the staff.
- Since school activities are subject to a strict schedule, it is important to be punctual and not be late. In case of absence for a valid reason, it is necessary to warn the teacher.
On the street
The way to school or other public place students overcome on foot, by public or private transport; accompanied by parents or independently (if age permits). A few rules of conduct in such cases:
- being outside the school walls, the student must remember that any act can adversely affect both his reputation and the reputation of the educational institution;
- communication with peers and young children should be friendly, be sure to say hello and say goodbye;
- older people should be treated politely, offer all possible assistance, give way in transport, hold the door;
- you can not distract the driver on the bus or parents when they are driving;
- all games that interfere with passers-by or threaten someone else's property must take place on appropriate playgrounds and sports grounds;
- the student must be instructed by parents or teachers on how to behave on the sidewalk and roadway;
- it is legally prohibited for minors to be in public places after ten o'clock in the evening unaccompanied by adults;
- for your own safety, do not talk to strangers, get into a car with them, or agree to requests to move to another place.
In other public places
When visiting a cinema, theater, zoo, library, stadium, you should remember the following.
- Before you go to any event in a new place, you need to carefully study the acceptable rules of conduct.For example, in the cinema it is permissible to consume food and drink during the screening, but in the theater it is not. In the zoo, you can buy special food for animals and even stroke them, and in the museum, all touching is prohibited.
- All actions must be carried out with the expectation that they do not interfere with anyone. In the library, theater and cinema (equally), students are prohibited from laughing, talking on the phone, or in any other way causing inconvenience to other visitors.
- If you can talk according to etiquette, you should not attract attention to yourself with loud noise (for example, in a cafe). You should communicate carefully with the interlocutor and service personnel. Don't turn your back, ignore greetings, and ignore polite words (such as "thank you", "please", "goodbye").
- Boys from an early age should be taught to help girls, let them go ahead. When entering a building, exits go first, then incoming.
- In the event of a dangerous situation, you should immediately contact the rescue service or at least inform an adult.
Generally Accepted Principles
Every child will become an adult sooner or later. It is scary to imagine what will happen in society if people's behavior is chaotic, unrestricted by anything. That is why it is important to educate in a child the qualities that are betrayed for several generations.
At the heart of any education are the principles of responsibility for one's actions, humanism, kindness, friendship, respect. A student who has mastered them is able to make individual decisions in accordance with the situation and without contradicting social norms.
The main principles of behavior in society include:
- respectful attitude towards the elders and help to the younger ones (from the position of the strong to the weak);
- tolerance towards other people, including people with disabilities;
- careful attitude to private and municipal property;
- protection of nature, animals, plants, taking measures to limit environmental pollution;
- ensuring their own safety and the absence of physical violence against other people.
In the next video, watch the main rules of conduct in public places.